It has been drilled into us through every blog, every writing book, every online course, every podcast about craft: write every day. Make it a habit. Make it non-negotiable. Even if it is only 200 words. Even if it is terrible. Just write.
I followed that advice for years. And then I stopped. And I want to tell you why — because I think for a lot of writers, especially writers with day jobs and families and a life outside of fiction, the "write every day" rule is not wisdom. It is a trap.
"Writing became something I had to do rather than something I wanted to do. And that shift killed something important."